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30-35,
*ngel fluff
writes:hi this is angel fluff i am having sex with a guy who is 35 years has three children. i am 19 years. we are not in a relationship we just having sex. i dont know what to do i really fall deep for him before we had sex twice and i meet him 2 weeks and we did it. after that he was moving. he dont call text and etc he say he always busy i really need some advice. he never make time for us to spend together i really enjoy the sex with him but i need more than that what to do i need help me plz.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): If you need more than a sexual realtionship then you need to find someone who is single. This guy has been using you for sex but he will always put his family first...as you are discovering. He is busy moving, working, helping to raise his family and spending time with his wife. So he wont have much time to spend with you! You are whats called 'the other woman' which means your needs will always be put at the end of the line by him.
For him its not love its just sex. Living this way will destroy your confidence... and a family. If you allow it to continue. Imagine the lies he has to tell to get away and be with you. The time and effort required isnt worth it to him unless hes feeling really horny. But if his wife is making love with him more at the moment, he wont need to see you. It might be an idea to find a way to boost your confidence so you feel good enough about yourself to go out there and find a man of your own that wants to be with you and no one else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): HE IS MARRIED FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!shouldnt that STOP you at least?what dont you get: he used you, he had easy sex and then he lost your number? did u expect him to come back running for more?let me spell it out: this long married man saw an easy lay and he had sex with you, he then did a duck because he got what he wanted. now he is back with his wife and kids and he has no time for you.the fact that he does not call, or text anymore should tell you that he is not interested.LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Looks like he's just using you like Bernard said. I think its wrong you would interfere with a marriage like that.. He's in the wrong too OBV but I don't understand how you could do that??? Hmm anyways if he felt the same and wanted to talk or hangout more he would make the effort and sneak around for you .. So wrong:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): A married man with 3 children is probably going to be busy taking care them, working, etc. It would probably be better for you to find a single guy that could spend more time with you and actually love you.
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