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writes:Me and my girlfriend which i met on internet and never meet physically so far. Still both of us are strongly connected and feel love for each other.We were thinking to get married by the next year. We had a plan to meet and spend a week together with all fun in this Easter vacation. both of us are virgins and had planned to lose it to each other. Then things changed rudely. She was feeling pain from last few months and went through some medical test.She has liver cancer and will not survive for more than 6 months. I want to marry or at least engagement right now to fulfill her one wish. she declined it strongly and just wants to spend the pre planned week with me. I want two suggestionI tried not crying in front of her, want to make her smile but we end up crying. dont know how to handle this situation.secondly, we did not talk about sex after this situation. If we spend time together and if we go for sex as we had planned Is it safe for both of us to have sex or physical intimacy? I am going to meet her anyway in any condition during Easter. plz suggest me( except from staying away from her) Reply to this Question
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (11 April 2011):
If you haven't spoken to her via webcam or at least on the telephone, this may be a huge fiction, she may not even be female, and I hope I am wrong. But it's possible- the net is a very treacherous place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Share your love, moments of beauty, love can last a lifetime and for eternity follow your heart. Is it too late to even think about the possibility of healing, Alternative natural medicine, such as Milk Thistle (helps the liver in many way's renewing liver cells) and a great nutritional diet of certain foods help FIGHT cancer,juice drinks Kiwi,orange,apple,blueberries,straw. Flax seed oil,cayen peppers,brocc.I must inform you i am no proffessional in alternative medicine however i can say i gave my partner all of the above when he was fighting a quick spreading bowel cancer,and we had to wait months before he could even be operated on due to complications. He remained physically strong and did not go down hill as quick as he may have with weight loss ( malnutrition )which gave him a better chance of fighting cancer and survival of the surgery, the cancer was at least slowed down (I BELIEVE WITHOUT DOUBT) We are still here to tell the tale. Hope/love has profound effects and can make the difference.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (11 April 2011):
I'm so sorry for her and for you.I don't know how can you possible handle being with her.I can tell you cancer isn't contagious so you can have sex with her. But I don't know if it's a good thing for her. If she want to, she should ask her doctor about this.
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