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writes:I ran into an old friend and we have been seeing each other. for the past three weeks. but the problem is that he is married and wants to leave his wife because she has cheated on him more then once. however he wont tell her that he wants to leave. or he is just telling me what i want to here. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): I agree with LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): so his wife is apparently cheating on himand he is definately cheating on his wife with youso why not pick up the phone and call his wife and ask her whether you can have her husband.this should settle any doubts you may have LoveGirl
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reader, amazingk +, writes (11 April 2011):
 If he wanted to leave her he would've after the first or even the second time she supposedly cheated (no way of even verifying whether or not that's true). It seems like he does his own thing on the side, so maybe the situation works for both of them in a really dysfunctional way if she really is cheating. You may not be the only woman he's said things like that to before, either. He could be telling the same story to many women right now.
Grown folks will do as they may, but the course of wisdom dictates backing off until he's able to present himself to you with divorce papers in hand. Alternatively, if you continue to see him under these circumstances, I hope you'll place him in the "fun only" category and don't put all your hopes, dreams, and expectations in his basket. Keep seeing others and keep your own life intact. Situations like these are a gamble and the odds are never stacked in the other woman's favor.
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