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writes:First kiss and then... nothing at the next date?Hi everyone...Well the answer might be obvious, but I might need your opinion..I date a girl and we get along. We spend everytime around 6-7 hours together when we see each other and we have fun. We had 3 dates and at the end of the 3rd date, we kissed each other and it happened naturally. Everything was good...And tonight I met her again (10 days after) and well... I tried to kiss her several times but I always ended up kissing her cheek. We had a lot of fun though... spent 6 hours together in total... but nothing happened...So what should I do? Maybe I went too fast? Or should I just let it flow... and see how it goes? Or talk to her about that?Thank you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): Sorry for the "brother", didn't see that you were a female :/ lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): Heyy Ima FreakThanks brother I appreciate your answer. I considered talking to her tomorrow about that and I wonder if I should or not...What do you guys think? Some people say that I should and some people like you say that I don't ...Thanks!!!
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (10 April 2011):
 Hiyaaaaaa,Yhh dude your going waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayo fast.Girls kinda like things slow and don't rush in because you got plenty of time!One thing that I recommend would be that you leave her hanging. Like kiss her on the cheek (purposely), hug her and wrap your arms around her waist kinda thing and leave her wanting more then you guys can get the perfect kiss each time!Remember that you dont have to kiss on every date! And since you've just dated this girl don't rush it because you'll end up making her do things she don't wanna do and this whole break up and you can pretty much guess the ending loooooool.Slow downnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!Hope my advice helps!Good luckIma FreAk!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks for the answer... yeah I might have rushed things you know.So I just wait... I planned to talk to her about it so that I know... but may be too soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): You came on a bit too strong. You try to kiss once and if she doesn't go for that then you leave it and give her a kiss on the cheek at the end.Don't read too deeply into it, the circumstances might have been different, if you were in a public place then maybe that's not her thing. There are lots of potential variables and it's very soon. Take it easy and don't be in such a rush next time. In my experience being too keen is a huge turn off for women. Things happened naturally the first time but you tried to force the issue this time. For all we know the first time you tried to kiss her that night she didn't feel the time was right and then you kept trying when you should have let it go.Just let it go and let things happen naturally next time. There's no need to apologize or talk to her about it. If you want to say something then make a joke of it next time you arrange to meet. Just say something like "I promise not to try and maul you this time" in a tongue and cheek kind of way. Just to put her at ease.Get this idea of "something happening" out of your mind. If all you're after is a girl to put out then she's not it. Take you time and go with the flow. What's the hurry?
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