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writes:Hey guys.I recently started going out with this amazing girl and I think this could actually go somewhere. Problem is someone she knows made up a rumor about her and her friend having slept together, I didn't take it seriously buy the more I think about it maybe the rumor isn't true but the person who made it up knows that they did something sexual together. Please can you help me and see what you think. I am 14 and still a virgin and I thought she was. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2011): There is nothing wrong with preferring to date a virgin if you wish. But I wouldn't be making that decision based on a flimsy rumor like this one. At the very least you should be asking her about her history if it's important to you.
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (11 April 2011):
 Hiyaaaaa,People make up a lot of crap these days so you shouldn't really listen to it. There are a lot of really nasty stupid people out there that enjoys twisting words, stories and just plain rubbish! It's like do you eat crap for breakfast, lunch and dinner?And even if the rumour was true you shouldn't walk away from your girl because nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. If it really bugs ya you should ask her if the rumour is true and don't leave her as in whether she says it's true of false just stick by her and she will know that you are the one for her!Hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (11 April 2011):
How in the heart could we possible know if she's a virgin or not. Sorry for being so rude. But think about your question. We can't answer that.I'll try to help you anyhow. In the first place let me tell you: you have the right to choose your girlfriend according to your own parameters. If you want a virgin girlfriend, don't let people tell you you have to accept the girls as is. That's a big lie I have read hundreds of times in the net.Now, the rumour. Any given rumour can be true or can be false. You can't tell be hearing the rumour itself. And a lot of people likes to hurt other people by making rumours up. So, think whether the person who started the rumour has any motive for hurting your girlfriend by making up a rumour. If he has, then chances are the rumour is false.Anyway, you will never know if it is true or not, unless some the person starting the rumour tells you it's false. Or your girlfriend tells you it's true.The only thing to do is talk with your girlfriend about this. Hear what she has to tell you and then, just trust your instinct. You are very young, if you are wrong you will end up finding out and you have the whole life to keep trying.
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