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I have a boyfriend but I feel I'm missing out on being single and all that it entails...

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Question - (16 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *Ax writes:

Hellooo.

I have a small issue that i don't know how to handle.

I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now (not including the recent breakup) and in the break up, i realised 2 things.

1. i love the attention i get and the freedom from being single

2. i love and want to be with my ex

I, in the end, decided to be with him. It's not that i regret going out with my boyfriend, but i'm really craving a lot of attention and flirting more with guys than i ever have before. I believe i'm getting enough attention from my own boyfriend but i'm just missing being single and scared that i might cheat on him or do something to upset him.

What do you suggest i do?

Thank you in advance :)

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (17 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntSingle life is hella fun around your age..Dressing up to the nines, going out with your single girl friends, flirting your heart away, dancing with other guys not having to worry about a boyfriend at home, drinking, getting drinks bought for you, and getting some numbers maybe even a kiss from the end of the night. You're not tied down or limited to the amount of guys you can have at one time. I say live your single life to the fullest extent, so you have it out of your system..then someday you'll be ready to settle but that time is not now. Go ahead and be free, spread your wings.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2010):

Go and be single. Another guy will come along. Another life won't, Have your fun, and when the right guy comes along, you'll settle down. You'll only resent it later in life if you don't have your fun now.

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