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writes:Me and my ex-boyfriend got back together after a 3 month break. I told my mum and since i've told her she hasnt been the same with me and she 'isnt fond' of him. I really dont know what to do, all i want is for my mum to like my boyfriend and she doesnt.Also, she threatened me the other day saying she would take my phone off me, because i text him? :-\ which again i dont know how to handle, she's my mum and i cant say no but i dont know why she's acting like this :( i love my boyfriend and dont want to leave him, im happy with him. But my mum isnt...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2010): How can you be SURE he will?
Not every guy never learns from mistakes. Just as not every teenager is a complete twat. Most are, I'll grant.
But unlike the previous poster, I choose not to judge an entire species of person because of my own predjudices.
That said, your mother is only trying to do her job, but you need to reassure her that even if it doesn't work out, you'll be alright. That she trained you well.
We NEED to feel that pain if it comes. If we are sheltered from it, we then cannot handle the pains that come with adulthood that are far, far worse.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 September 2010):
Of course she's not happy. He was an ex and you went back to him. That's why she's acting this way. Having been a teenage girl before, she will know what you're going through. And she will also know that this guy will probably wind up hurting you again. And she's right. He will. Why don't you ask her why she doesn't like him and LISTEN to her. Mothers are all too often right. Listen to what she has to say, and why she doesn't like him.
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