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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): I'm laughing so hard I'm having difficulty typing out my answer to your question!! Can u really be so nieve? Didn't u take sex ed in High School? Your husband my dear is cheating. He is accusing you of the same just to assuage his own guilt.
GirlyGirl76 is right about him passing an STD on to you.
But first and foremost remember to......KEGEL, KEGEL and KEGEL some more!!!! I'm still laughing....sorry
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 "has been in his stuff"? Yikes.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (16 September 2010):
 It's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway."
Your vagina doesn't go from tight to loose in a matter of a day. Over time your vagina stretches, even more so when you have children. Your husband's reasoning for your apparent loose vagina is a piss poor one.. Usually when one accuses you of cheating they're really the guilty one. Listen to Slim Shady.
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (16 September 2010):
the fact that he is insecure and thinks you are cheating is probably the result of a guilty conscience. guys who cheat often accuse there spouses of the same thing because its always in there head. if im capable then so is she, or what if she knows and is trying to get back at me. either way you need to consider your options and what your going to do. either he has cheated on you, hes planning on cheating on you, or hes just a mentally and emotionally abusive husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): You're man is an ignorant fool. Even a very large man will not permanently stretch out a woman's vagina...not even for a day. To accuse you of infidelity because of this is ridiculous. Take him to your Gyno and have them explain to him what an ass he is being. Vaginas aren't made of Pla-Doh.
Water and electrolyte balance, how relaxed you are and how wet you are will all affect how "loose" you are or feel.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 September 2010):
I'd suggest that he's cheating on you, or that he is a bad husband in general.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Your husband's reasoning for accusing you of cheating is SEVERELY flawed. There are deeper issues at hand, the first being his lack of trust.
How long have you been married? Has there been cheating from either of you previously in the relationship?
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reader, Kenj +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Maybe hes getting smaller LOL.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (16 September 2010):
Kegel,kegel and kegel some more.Stop your pee midway.Even when you're not peeing you can contract the muscles you use when stopping your pee.This will help tighten your vagina,and you will even feel the sensations more when having sex.Im a witness to this.
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reader, GirlyGirl76  +, writes (16 September 2010):
He is probably cheating on you. So get out of there because he may give you some STD.
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