A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi I am 29 years old and was with my boyfriend for a few months he is in the military, we had our disagreements before he got deployed, he was the perfect guy at the beginning, then all changed, he started getting upset every time i want to talk about something that is bothering me, I found 2 Myspace accounts of him, i did not know about them then i found another profile in tagged. He has a facebook account where we're supposed to be in a relationship well not anymore, because i found that he has a profile on a swingers website adultfriendfinder! it says he is a paying memeber!!! it says that he just log on when i knew he was on port, because whe he is deployed they stop on prots and get internet :( i am jsut so sad and feel sick, he is not even here i had to email him and tell him and he just liee and told me "oh i am not going to lie, i did use that in the past but before I met you" and i know he is lying! I can see his profile and that he just logged on :( I broke up with him, i can't stand what he did to me, he say he did not cheat, but I think he did... why he will still pay for that site? also if he likes those kind of things I am sure he wants that right? also he had all this friends on his profile from california, that is where he lives now and also friends from north carolina where he used to live before, so i am guessing he has always used this site right??I am the sweetest person, I even cry at the end of toy story 3 when the toys where going to die :( i just feel so sick in my belly :(
View related questions:
broke up, facebook, military, myspace, swinging Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I don't trust him he is a subscriber on the site, it shows there when helog on, that he is a silver momber, he even have friends there in he's profile, he check it exactly when he was onportin costa rica, he has been lieying to me :(
A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (17 September 2010):
 Spolier alert! I haven't watched T3 yet!!
Like Honeypie said the internet isn't always up to pare overseas. Technically, you can't prove he cheated...all he did was long onto a website he apparently used before you. But i understand why long on when you have a girlfriend? He could have been stopping or deleting his account. Obviously, you questioned him in the first place hence why you went googling his name to find all these accounts he has. In a military LDR, a relationship period there has to be trust in order for it to work. If there's no trust it fails. You're going to have to wait till he comes home if you want to resolve it, personally I don't think your count out for a LDR due to your trust issues.
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 September 2010):
 If all this happened within the short time you two have been dating, I would just walk away now.
The Adultfinder account could be from before he met you and he just haven't used/deleted it. Don't forget the guys over there have restricted access to many websites.
Go with your gut, honey. Don't second guess yourself. Life is too short.
...............................
|
