A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey there, I have a question about a girl at work. She started working here like 2 years ago. I liked her a lot, and felt it was pretty mutual. However, I never asked her out and another co-worker got to her first. I was very bummed, but got over it. It's been like 1 year or so, and they are still "dating" from what I've been told. He's 31ish, and she is turning 21 next month. From what I've been told, it isn't that serious of a relationship, cause her parents don't even know their dating (they wouldn't approve of him being older or w/e). I won't lie, I still have strong feelings for her. People have told me to just get over it, but I don't think I'd mind "waiting in line". Is that just pathetic of me, and I should move on? Would it be wrong of me to try hooking up with her even though she's in a "casual" relationship? Thanks for any help, and sorry for the wall of text. I don't know which route I should go..
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reader, jen_ann1 +, writes (29 May 2010):
Go for it! So many guys hold back from their feelings because of their pride. But lets be honest - if you snooze, you lose. what do you have to lose anyway? Tell her how you feel. She may not feel the same way, but at least you will flatter her, and will have done something good even if she turns you down. It will be ok!
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