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writes:hi!im in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 years.As soon as he touches me or kisses me i get so excited and wet and our sex goes very smooth!But he tells me that sex should be painful and suspects me a lot.i love him so much and i get hurt whenever he suspects me.is it a wrong thing to get excited soon? Reply to this Question
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reader, Kama  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 They're all right. Your boyfriend has a distorted view of what sex should be. Feel confident about yourself - nothing wrong with you.
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Does he know how lucky he is?
Nothing wrong with you, as all,others have said - he has just got a strange idea about sex.
Maybe he has been listening to ignorant men in the pub?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Where did he get the idea that sex should be painful ??!!
In fact, if sex is painful after the first couple of times- it's a good idea to see a doctor and check if there is anything wrong.
What does he suspect you of ?..
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reader, L.A LATINA  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Wow no there is nothing wrong with that at all...when you love some one so much and attracted to him ...he should be happy. knowing he can do that to you still ..when you start to lose that feeling then he should be worried...hope this helps you
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): What??? No, no and NO! It's just a good thing! Lucky you and your boyfriend that you get easily wet, it makes the sex so much smoother and not to say the least much more comfortable. Tell him that he should be happy that you are so attracted to him. Does he want you to feel pain during sex? That would be wierd. And if you were dry as a sandbox, it wouldn't be as comfortable for him either during sex, trust me!
Ask you boyfriend why he thinks it should be painful for you. Explain to him that some women have PROBLEMS with not getting wet enough but some women are LUCKY and don't have that problem. Be happy that you are so attracted to eachother!
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Sex should be painful?? Sex should be smooth and fun and enjoyable.
It's totaly normal and prefered. I think it's hot when girl gets easily excited... what ever problem he has with that it's only his problem.
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