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*ich33
writes:Me and my fiance had an argument the other day he had been drinking i tried to resolve things but he just carried on getting at me this was the last chance for our relationship and he knew this. He asked for his stuff back and said it is finished i have had to call police as he has been aggressive and harassing me after he called it off. what i don't understand is he Left a note saying i have to make a decision about whether i still want him and say to his face despite the fact he already said it is over and wanted his stuff back which he gave back to me (weird) and also i have said To him it is over don't come back to him. i am not going to respond as i think he is using guilt to make me respond and i don't want the relationship any more.Is this guilt trips? why does he want me to say its over if he already has in a sense or is he just trying to get me to end it so i feel guilty?
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reader, mich33 +, writes (29 May 2010):
mich33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont know where to begin about the argument he misinterpreted something i said in the morning on the phone as he went to the shops it sounded like he had had a drink as well as he was swearing at me on the phone about this he came back home and i also had a can of beer as i was upset that he had been quite angry over something trival he then brought up about some other things about feeling i hide things this was because of something he knew about anyway so i wasnt hiding anything then he carried on about pretty trival things i think because he had a drink he became aggresive to me swearing at me i did not retaliate either. seems to me he wanted an arguement all day. then i called the police and he said it was over i called the police because he was drunk and was frigtened of arguments.
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reader, mich33 +, writes (29 May 2010):
mich33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry for the vagueness of it, It was the last chance as we used to have violence in the relationship due to both our drinking, we admitted we wanted to change things, he also punched my best friend whilst drunk and ended up in prison for 2mths when he came out we gave up drink and things improved and i said it was the last chance for us to make things work.
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