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writes: Some background information, ever since I was 14 I have had one really large labia on my right side, I absolutely hate it!! It makes me so unconfident and especially around inexperienced guys as I'm worried they will just be like "ew, what's that?!". So my question is... If, as a guy, you were dating a woman with a wierd vagina would you expect her to work on her body etc to make up for it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Absolutely not! We all come in a variety of sizes, and I certainly don't think that because your labia are a caertain shape that you should have to "make up for it"!
If you discovered that a guy had say, an odd foreskin or a funny shaped penis head, would you expect him to buff up in order to compensate for his penis? I hope not.
Your vagina is fine - just avoid teenage boys or idiots and I'm sure your partners will be as apreciative as they are turned on.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 I think there is probably nothing too weird about your downstairs plumbing department. All ladies are different in what they have down there and the media (particularly adult movies) have presented a perfect standard we are all supposed to comply with (but doesn't exist in reality). If you are in a sexual situation with a man who says 'ew, what is that?'...I think it is time to say 'ew, the door is over there please use it'. Any man who disrespects your body in such an intimate situation is really not worth having!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 Guys mostly just like all vaginas. I've never talked to a guy who ever had one he didn't like. Look around online at real vaginas (not porn stars) and you'll see, they come in ALL shapes sizes and colors. Most people's labia are uneven. Mine are, my best friend's are, and most of the women's I've seen in locker rooms are. Take a look at this (below) from Planned Parenthood and you'll see. Unless they are causing you physical discomfort, they are normal. As women we are always taught that our vaginas are dirty, smelly, and ugly, but the truth is they are beautiful, clean (the cleanest organ in your body), and they actually contain pheromones that guys love! It's really sad that in our culture (partially thanks to Freud) we are taught to be ashamed of the fact that we have vaginas and to be embarrassed by them. But there's no reason for it, and guys certainly don't notice anything about them beyond "Yes! I'm having sex!"
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/watch/watch.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): There is a surgery that called labiaplasty, they will make it look pretty for you. My daughter had it, same problem. It's around 2500$, and recovery is pretty painfull, but it's worth it. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): I don't think you should let this bother you. Most guys are just happy to get access and hopefully if he is a good guy he'll accept you for who you are :)NightFairy
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): When I was unexperienced, heck even now, I'm just happy to get to see the girl naked and be close to her. True, some might have prettier vulvas/vaginas but I've never seen one that made me go like OMG weird and ugly. So don't worry.
Also if you like someone you like all their body parts just because they're a part of the one you love.
The more inexperience the more the guy focuses on not messing up their own preformans and thinking of what you think of them. Trust me. ;)
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