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writes:I don't mind that my boyfriend had friends that are girls, but I told him that I don't want him talking/texting them late, which I consider after midnight as I was told this was "Booty call time". And keep in mind that we live together. As far as I knew he was respecting this wish. Well last night one of his friends "Ashley" called him at 2:20 AM. He ignored the call. Then right after he took our puppy outside and came back in five minutes later. I checked his phone this morning and come to find out that he text her at 2:30 AM saying "what's up." I don't think anything is going on, but should I confront him about it for hiding it from me?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Yeah to be honest it would peeve me off too. I wouldn't want people texting my man at that time of the night either. Also I think you have a right to be annoyed that he's hidden it from you but you need to be really careful about how you go about confronting him cause I would also be peeved about someone snooping through my phone to check up on me too. Don't do it in an angry moment. Be calm and think carefully about how you would find it if the boot was on the other foot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): I honestly think you shouldn't be getting worried, it seems you don't trust him at all talking to other girls. So what's the point of the relationship without trust?..
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