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writes:My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. We've been dating for five months and I know I'm in love with him. We have been so happy, until a couple weeks ago.I really don't know what happened. I just fell under alot of stress and pressure. Maybe it's cause the school year is ending and I'm starting to feel the heat.Either way, I have been feeling pretty unhappy lately, but when we went away for May Long, everything went back to normal, but as soon as we came back we started fighting again. I don't want to leave him because he's the one that can make me happy, even though we are arguing about POINTLESS things all the time.So, how do we change this? fix this? I don't really know what the problem is so I can't really communicate to him what my issues are clearly. But I do know one thing, I dont want this to tear us apart! /3 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): I have had the same problem with my boyfriend, just about a month ago. If you guys are already in an argument, you need to walk away from each other for a moment, not too long but just long enough for each of you to cool down and YOU start to think. You need to think if whatever it is you're fighting over, is worth fighting over. If the answer is No, you need to go back in there and just tell him you really don't see no need to argue over something so stupid, remind him that you love him and just let him know that you're really happy to be with him. I started doing this when we were arguing every time we were together and I actually talked to him about it too, told him I didn't think we needed to argue because I really do love him and I know he loves me. We agreed and we haven't argued in a month. So, try it! It should work(:
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reader, Starmonster888  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 What Jessmca said.
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reader, Jessmca  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 I have had the same problem girl! What I would do is try to STOP the fighting. When you know there's a fight thats about to happen, YOU stop it. And be the bigger person in your relationship. And tell him no matter what goes on, no matter what stupid fight, you'll always will be with him.
Good luck!
xoxo
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