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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, I found out I was the "other woman" in about a two year affair. The kid was older and I kept my virginity, thankfully. He had always had a "mystery" to him - he disappeared for three months without a trace and reappeared wanting me back...(seems obvious but I was younger and definitely more naive at the time.) Things got better and he was being more open. Just when he promised to treat me the way he was supposed to be treating me, the next day I get a phone call. It was the other girl- he had tried to break up with her and in the process they got into an argument in the street which ended up with her get hit by a car and him calling me for comfort since his "guy friend" got hit by the car and he was making sure everything would turn out okay...When the other girl called me and asked some questions, we figured out the situation and were both in shock but I also found out from her that she had also cheated in the past..but never an affair like the one he was able to carry on. After I talked with her and found out the truth I stopped talking to him and told the other girl she could have him. Now, after about two years I am having slight regrets. I think that they are still together and my question is Should I attempt talk to him, even out of curiosity??? If not, how can I get over it... it's been too long and I'm not an idiot but sure do feel like one.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (29 May 2010):
 You told the other girl she could have him, so stick with that. Just get over it, turn your attention to other things (and people) you enjoy.
Life is short; why waste another minute of your time and energy on this man?
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reader, everlast +, writes (29 May 2010):
 If he single seek him out but if he did it to her there will be a chance he will do it to u.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 If you want to have a relationship with someone who will lie to you, that's your business.
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