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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have sex about twice a week.. I love everything about my boyfriend and he loves every thing about me.. and were absolutely CRAZY for each other, I feel I am in love with him strongly and I wanna be with him for forever. I really wanna stop having sex for awhile but it's kind of hard to control cause we always get so turned on and then I say "Let's have sex." I know he can control it cause he never asks for sex, and I am always the one asking, which I feel is the good thing. Reply to this Question
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 take a break from sex, yeah you say that you initiate it, but you want to know the truth here, dont meantion not wanting to till say he asks, and consentrate on making the relationship better by going out and doing things together which dont involve sex, like going to the movies, or if you have dogs, take them out for a walk together or something. just spent time away from where you know urges will occur for sex. as this will improve your thoughts on what you feel for him.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Not sure what you're asking - if you're in love or in love for the sex or he is in love with you or just for the sex. Either way, given your age, I say cool it with the sex. Think of it this way: there's a saying that most men think with their smaller head - boys your age especially as their hormones are going crazy. If you say all the time "let's have sex" well he's not going to say no, is he? If the two of you refrain from sex for a while (say a month or two), then see how he reacts to you and how you think about him. If there are any changes from either of you, then you will know whether the two of you are truly in love or just in love with the sex.
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