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writes:I have been in a relationship for 3years. And I love my boyfriend very much. We are at the age where people start talking about marriage and babies. We've been having this talk. I love him and can't imagine my life without him. But I don't know if I want to marry him or have kids with him. I want to get married and have kids in general but I don't know if I want to with him....even though I love him and he's my best friend. I feel like if i still don't know after 3years... I'm just wasting his time. We're getting older...I don't know what to do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 After 3 years and the prospect of marriage is still far off in the horizon, may have made you have those uncertain feelings.
You will have to decide if you want to go on with this relationship .If he cannot commit, it is better to break it off.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Does he know that you are not sure about marriage? If he does and he's upset about it then he's the one wasting his time not you. So long as you are upfront about your feelings then you have nothing to feel guilty about. It's when you lead someone on making them think you are going to marry them but in fact having no intention of it that you would be wasting his time.
Hope this makes sense.
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