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writes:I am falling for someone who is not totally available. He is one of my senior bosses and he is helping me at the moment to leave my job with my diginity in tact.(Its for the best and what I want).Whenever I see him around the company, he always double takes me. Once another manager really upset me and I was in tears in this guys office. I felt so warm to him that I felt we nearly cuddled. He has recently been requesting meeting after meeting. My last one with him, he kept looking at my chest that made me feel a little uneasy. That night I dreamt that he brought me a ring. I cant stop thinking about this guy and his motivates and intentions and whether they are geniune.Can you give me some advice as outsiders and can any one explain what my dream meant.thanks for your time.I have been hut before and I do nto allow myself to be used but this guy is so warm, sincere and different. We have about 60 staff within our organisaiton and whenever we have a staff meeting I can feel him singling me out and looking at me.What do youthink is going on? I am going through a rough time at work where I am being bullied. I am good at my job. I am also in a relationship and have my own family. My relationship is not quite where I would like it at the moment and I can not stop thinking about this guy.I
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your words Ask Oldersister. I am actually quite tough considering what I am going through. I was due to attend a disciplinary hearing and he cancelled it if i resigned. He already knew I wanted to leave and did not feel having a disciplinary was going to look good on future references. I do feel he is a little coward of his SM team as I feel deep down the so to be called offences are rubblish. I am due to meet with him and my Union on tuesday to go through the facts. I have also asked to meet with the HR manager who is one of the bully's and the women who did the investigation seperately as both of them have tried to tarnish my reputation. Despite the fact that I have a number of people trying to bully me, I am sleeping, I have not taken time off for stress or done anything to make them feel as though they are winning. He has even volunteered to give me some interview practice and help with future applications. Prior to this disciplinary incident, I have always felt warmness coming from me. In the past he has said to me that I am very tough. I manager a team of five single handed and 70 students. I feel he is attracted to my strenght of character. That time I broke down in his office was because I felt like I did not have anyone to turn to and had had enough. this was related to a different matter.
When I do leave, I would like to keep in touch with him. I am being careful and not placing myself in a vulnerable position. I am not embarassing myself by coming on to him. He recently called me into his office to advice me that my job is due to be advertised and was really concerned about my job application process.
I feel there is something geniune about the guy. We can always remain friends. A man will always be a man and boby language is hard to control. If you have any further comments do let me know.
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