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30-35,
*heerwhore23
writes: so there's this guy.. I like him so much its not even funny..he lives about 50 minutes from me..he can drive but his parents are super strict and we can never EVER see each other.. He just got grounded for cussing out his dad because he couldn't see me.. I feel like his parents hate me even though he swears they don't... He's getting in trouble because of me and I feel horrible...there's this other guy at my school who actually likes me and his parents love me..should i just give up on the other guy and go for the one here??? I have no idea what to do I'm in love with the first guy and I've had a thing with the second guy since 9th grade..please help :/ Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Jessmca +, writes (29 May 2010):
Okay it sounds like your in a pickle! I would honestly stay with the first guy because your in love with him and it's deep. And I would try to put an effect towards the guy your in love with to get to know his parents and meet them and talk to them. And don't worry, they DON'T hate you if your bf says they don't. I have the same problem, I felt that my bf's parents HATED me because they would randomly ground him from me. But I found out the truth is they don't trust me and him because him and I have had sex and they know. I would try to go over to your loves' house and get to know his parents and if his parents flip out about him and you hanging out again, call and personally talk to his parents. And the guy you have known since 9th grade, stay friends with him.. Be close friends, that's the best way. Good luck girl!!
xoxo
Jess
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