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writes:i dont know what to do im torn between two men. my ex and my sons father, who stepped out of our lives for 5 months who is now back trying to get back together with me. or my current boyfriend who is great and would do anything for me but yet is sort of boring.. i dont know what to do. i really like my new boyfriend but i find myself thinking about my ex more. we had a bad breakup..and it still hurts . I know the quote " is you love someone set them free etc, but right now im not sure. should i gamble and take that chance and get back with my ex or stay with what i have?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 You look at those two guys and see who is more loving , more understanding ,more thoughtful,more compassionate, more kind, more sensitive and more devotion for you .
Who is the one that you cannot live without and who is the one who can spend more time with you or put you on the top priority list.
I hope this would help you to decide who you want to spend your whole life with.
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reader, BGP 88  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 always follow your heart. From the sounds of it you're more interested in your ex. While it would kinda be in the baby's interest to get back with him, the fact that you split up and had a bad break up speaks volumes. The guy you are with now is the one who really cares for you, as you said he would do anything for you. I'm not saying anything bad about the father of your child, but maybe you and him aren't meant to be. My advice is that if you're happy with your new guy, then stay with him, but be friends with your ex and make him a big part of the child's up-bringing. If you don't feel right with this new guy, then break up with him. It's not fair on him. It does sound like a tough decision but you should really go with who you really feel for. As I said, follow your heart xx
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