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Was my hymen broken? Did I even have one?

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Question - (29 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ustscreamkeitah writes:

Hey . May 7th 2010 iWas with a friend of mines and we were in his room and we were cuddled and iTold him that i was a virgin so he has big fingers and he put 2 fingers inside me and it didnt hurt at all (remind you iAm still a virgin) iDidnt bleed scream in pain . nothing ! . So then he said we should try it and iDecided we should to and when he put it in it didnt hurt at all like most girls said it did nor did iBleed likee most girls said they did . I havee 2 questions . 1) Is theree somethingg wrong with my hymen ? Did iEven havee onee ? And 2) when iContinuee to havee sex duringg the future with bigger thingies would my hymen break sometime soon ? PLZZZ answer iReally am anxious to know ! THNKS !

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A female reader, noodle United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2010):

My first time it didn't hurt or bleed so don't worry about it just doesn't happen to some girls your fine babe, did u ever used to horse ride or an activity like that because that has been said to break ur hymen even before uv had sex x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

1) not really, no. or well, there's no such thing as a hymen that is covering the whole hole, like a film or something, but there is like rim. this rim is bigger on some women and smaller on others. most girls don't bleed or are in a lot of pain their first time. that's all a myth, especially the thing with the blood and 'breaking the hymen'. on my first time i hurt a little, but that was mostly because i was nervous and tensed up, i think.

2) and since there really isn't a hymen like the one that can be 'broken', no. if you put very big 'things' inside you, you might hurt or bleed, but then you haven't been relaxed enough or been exited enough.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

IF he's not big enough he might not break it yet and that doesnt matter you got something wrong with you hymen it only means he's not big enough( probaly yet) to penatrate it.

That mean if you use something bigger it will break

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