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*antbelievehisluck
writes:Hello. Thanks for reading. Okay, so me and this girl have established that we like eachother, but when trying to meet up with her something gets in the way, and then she says how she wished we had met up. I think it has something to do with her last relationship... what do i do? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, cantbelievehisluck +, writes (1 June 2010):
cantbelievehisluck is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell first of thanks, its given me a lot to think about. Im torn between the two types of responses.. but both say to talk to her about it, guess i'll try that. Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): I don't want to sound offensive or anything - but I don't think Auntie E or Laura1318 are correct (though they may well be). I believe this because I am in the same situation...except that I'm the one who is "avoiding" the person I like.
The thing is to be honest, I am scared of getting serious. I am into my guy, and I'm not hiding anything and I do WANT to be serious. Oh and I DEFINITELY am not playing games! I don't want to sound like I know this girls thoughts but if she is any good she would not play games with you. She is nervous of how you will like her in real life, she might have some social problems - you know like interacting with people. I know I find it hard.....I'm only confident when I have been around someone for a very long time (NOT including msn etc because I can be very confident on msn). Just don't make any rash decisions, let her come to terms first - she will build up the courage eventually.
But, I guess there is still a chance that Laura1318 or Auntie E are correct....even if I don't think so - make the judgement yours, but try to understand that girls can be as scared as committing as guys! - Even if they are committment material.
Hope this helps :/
Kazz
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Either she is not serious or not into you or she is hiding something from you .
She likes your attentions and could be toying with you like a cat and mouse game.
Stay away from her and see if she will come for you .
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Dear Cantbelieve - this girl is playing games with you. How old is she - 12? Don't buy that "last relationship" nonsense. Sounds a little silly to me. Wouldn't you agree? Indicate to her that you are moving on because of her nonsense - see if that changes her tune.
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