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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So my boyfriend and i went to dinner yesterday, we had a good time and talked and stuff(we recently got back together). while we were separated he started talking to this girl, which i had no problem with because we were not together, when he came back i told him that he needed to cut down the contact with her, he said ok.Getting back to diner: after dinner i went home and i found out that he was still talking to her for hours, so immediately i called him and asked him if he was still talking to her he said no, i asked him if he was sure he said yes, that he has not spoken to her in a while because her phone is off, i laughed and i asked him you did not talk to her around 3? he asked me how i knew that i said i just know, and then he finally admitted it, he got annoyed and he just hung up.So i called him back like ten times (excessive i know but i do not like to get played and i think with him lying to me like that was disrespectful and i needed and explanation) he never answered he just kept ignoring my calls so on the eleventh call through voice mail i broke up with him, and he has not spoken to me since and he still talks to the girl for hours still, i think i made the right decision, because if he had nothing to hide he would not have lied in the first place, that was just to disrespectful if he wanted to be with her he should have told me so in the first place then stringing me along, don't you think?
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 if you are looking for an opinion, i think you were right to break up with him because it seems unclear what he wanted with the girl. but i dont think you should have broken up with him over voicemail, its a bit cold but he probably deserves it i guess.
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