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female
age
30-35,
*essmca
writes:Okay so I've been dating this guy for about 4 months now, and him and I started off as bestfriends before. When we were friends right before we dated we had sex. Then awhile later we dated and we have sooo many feelings for eachother and I am crazy for him and I feel I am in love with him uncondtionally. I have never felt this way about someone, and I feel I am in love. But the thing is.. I feel too clingy towards him. Like for example; when he is with his friend and he doesn't talk to him within 3 or 4 hours I call him and if he doesn't pick up I start to think all this shit through my head.. and it's really depressing and bad. I wanna be able to let him chill with his friends and TRUST him. Because I know I don't trust him because he talks to a couple other girls, and he's an extremley flirtious person. My question is HOW CAN I GET LESS CLINGY AND TRUST HIM MORE??
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reader, Jessmca +, writes (27 September 2010):
Jessmca is verified as being by the original poster of the question girlll, your too obsessed it's chill braa
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reader, Empressjai  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 In order to trust him you need to develop trust. You are displaying signs of being needy and you need to get that under control or you could very well push him away with your constant checking-up-on-you calls. You need to get a grip and decipher are you two a couple or just dating? Have a conversation about this because if he sees you as a 'friend with benefits' then he can get with whoever he wants. So find out where you stand and if the two of you are an exclusive couple if you're not,
Without trust nothing is possible, sex can exist but a true relationship will fail without trust. The fact that it is YOU that doesn't trust him makes this YOUR problem not his. He doesn't have to do anything to make you trust him it is down to you. Ask yourself why you dont trust him, why you cling so much? These have nothing to do with him they are within you so they are your problem.
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (29 May 2010):
 i think its because you've never felt this way before your being so clingy but you need to ask yourself can you really trust him and if hes ever given you a reason not to. of course you could just tell him how you feel, not in an accusatory tone and his reaction should make you cooler
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