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writes:HiPlease disregard my age and answer my question by the knowledge of a woman. I'm 18 and I have feelings for my boss. Not a crush, I've had crushes and I didn't want those to go anywhere. I literally mean I have deep feelings for him. When he talks I listen to every word he says, I usually don't listen to men. He's quirky and goofy just like me. I love his eyes, the way he walks, his stance, his laugh and when he let's me know about what makes him angry. I just don't know what to do. Keeping my feelings in makes me nervous to be around him and I don't wanna leave my job. So what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): I have feelings for my boss as well. I know exactly how you feel. I cant wait to see him. I can tell he has feeling for me too by the way he looks at me. Does this guy stare at you or any itimate part of your body? If you feel you are doing all the loving - its not going to go any where. flirt a little and watch his reaction. You wont know unless you try. If he is stopping you from getting on with the rest of your life, leave your job!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): How old is he? Is he married? What would you gain from a relationship with him? What would you lose if rejected?
Is this a job you want as your career or just a temporary one? Answer these questions and maybe ask a few more to decide the best thing for you.
Good Luck!
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Tread VERY carefully here! He is your boss. If it was a co-worker who was the same on the "food chain" then I'd say go with your heart, but he is higher than you. If he doesn't feel the same way with you, then life with him will be completely awkward and he may even use that against you, being your boss. Just be very, very careful.
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