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Why is she so negative?

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Question - (5 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I split from a girl over two years ago I found out she was seeing someone else where we worked. A year ago I got promotion with the same business, I could of stayed at the same location, but my choice was to leave. When I left I told her I loved her but it was best I left and wished her well but told her not to respond or wish me well, because quite frankly her behaviour to me was odd, for someone who had caused her no problems. Her and the other guy didn’t work out because he was a player and complete idiot. I last saw my ex six months ago up until last when I had to ring her work related, I could hear the nerves in her voice. I later had to go and see her, I told her I was coming. When I got there you could tell she had done all her makeup, I was casual and said are you making a drink, she said she was typing so I made them. We chatted and we had lots of eye contact. She looked miserable. I noticed she had a new car when I arrived ( her old one was only two years old so soon to change) I commented on her new car and said its nice, she replied hmm its ok..

I then asked her how work was and she replied she hated it, and I said what the role your in now? She replied no all of it, there was nothing positive about her all negative.

I did not mention the past in anyway, but my question is this, why is everything so negative when she talked even her new car and why the makeup thing ??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010):

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Now she is being nice and friendly towards me !! hoepfully the past is the past.. a new day..

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2010):

She's been hurt. She knew she screwed up and it hasn't worked out, and it's hurt her. Badly. But it's not your problem. Really it's not. Just remember this woman treated you badly as well. I wouldn't dwell upon her at all.

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