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writes:My boyfriend has smoked cannabis for some time now, and although he has not changed his habits, his attitude towards it has got much worse. He told me only a few months ago that if I asked him to stop he would stop, but recently I have got more concerned about his use of it and he has simply brushed my concerns off either laughing at them, or shouting/ getting funny with me over me bringing any concerns up. Its putting me off being with him as he is completely unwilling to compromise over it, even though it bothers me greatly. I am not expecting him to stop completely, just to calm it down a bit, and consider other peoples feelings but he just seems to think im daft.It's really starting to make me unhappy, and he's taken completely no notice of every attempt for me to talk to him about it. Should I leave him? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 June 2010):
I'll give you a very good reason to dump him, other than just the fact that he's on drugs. Cannabis can affect sperm and make it lethargic and crappy. Basically, if you want kids it will be about ten times as hard to conceive with this man. That's a pretty decent reason. Others include that he's not listening to you, he's wasting money, he doesn't really respect you. The list is pretty long.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 He has no future. He's addicted to cannabis. He can't stop smoking. YES! You should leave him! He'll drag you down big time. Cannabis isn't the fun drug you see in the movies that livens up the party. It's a lobotomy on a stick!
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