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writes:well.. i have a friend who is very important to me, and we are very very best friends, and we understand each other, make each other laugh and etc.. i have known him for 2 years, and the thing is few years back his girlfriend died in his arms. he loved her alot more than anything in the world, and he promised her ( before her last breaths ) that he will live his life on for her, and its been 6 years he suffers for her alot. And he said tht i am the only person who is like his late girlfriend, and he wishd he could get with someone like his girlf.. the thing is i want to support him in this.. BUT.. i love someone so much too, and i cant live without him, but on the other side i want to get with the friend to stop him for taking poison or something to end his life and stuff... im sooo stuck. i want to marry my BF and spend my life with him, but im hurt and confused.. PLEAAASE GIVE UR OPINIONNNNN
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Go with the one that you cannot live without. You cannot be on guard for someone for 24 hours and if they want to die,there is nothing you can do about them.
This person who may want to end his life ,may not do it .He could only be rambling on to gain your sympathy or simply to manipulate you .
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Do what's going to make YOU the happiest.
Im not going to tell you who to pursue, you need to figure that out on your own. Youre going to want to be in a relationship that you can tolerate.
When it comes to relationships, i've found out the hard way that putting someone else's happiness before yours, if you're truely not happy, only adds more heartache down the road for the other person.
So... youre answer is to take whichever one makes you happiest.
xnickx
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