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writes:Ladies only please. And no negetive remarks. There's this girl. We were in a good relationship. We laughed, had fun together and had some good times. Like a month and a half back she broke up with me because she said that she wasn't ready for a serious relationship right now, she wanted to be single and we should be friends. Today I read her bulletin on myspace stating that she was only 90 percent over me compared to the obvious 100. And she might be bothered if she saw someone else kissing me. I want to see her so bad but she doesn't think its the right time for her to see me. She's going to see some guy on Tuesday and I highly doubt that its me. I'm in a new city, no friends close by, no girls around, and my car was totalled, so I have no way of getting out. We txt everyday even if its late for hours. The arguments between us have stopped almost suddenly as if she's changed a bit, but I don't know if its for the better on my end. I just want to see her happy and she says that she loves me still. What should I do. Should I take her words literally and think there will never be anything between us but friendship or is there still a chance. Sorry for it being so long but I don't wanna go around thinkn "what if". If she feels the way she says could it possibly be me she's coming to see or should I just give up wishing for something that will never be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): the arguements between you have stopped because she has moved on and no longer feels the need to . you need to move on too. it will be hard but break contact . get a loan on the go for a new car and find out whats happening socially in your area .
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reader, portiaj  +, writes (6 June 2010):
She sounds like the proverbial dog in a manger. She does not want to be in a relationship with you , but she aso does not want anyone else to have you! Please, please please, move on. Based on how you described your feelings for her, you need to make a clean break. This means stop the texting, stop the communication with her. If you don't she will continue to prey on your feelings for her . That line about being friends is merely used to keep you attached, while she plays the field! GET OUT NOW!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): You sound like you are not ready to move on,and I understand yhere are always the what if's.... if she is telling you she is going out with someone & that someone is not you ...she is subtly trying to tell you she is moving on... as they say "let it go if it comes back to you its your" if it doesnt you will need to find the lesson in there and learn from it ..good luck ,its nice to know guys really do care enough to ask what you have asked . :)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 If she feels the way she says...she says she is 90percent over you. Not a very encouraging perspective even really wanting to be optimistic.
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reader, DearAlice +, writes (6 June 2010):
 you feel stuck and you dont know what to do. you want her to love you and she sometimes make you think so. its a cruel and unusual game.
she wants you to obsess over her but doesnt want to be with you. she also doesnt want you to be with anyone else... this girl wants her cake and wants to eat it to...
in the real world you cant do that to peoples feelings because it create heartless cheaters..
listen kid. your young and you have an entire life of love and heart brake ahead of you.
i'm not saying not to fight for your heart but if your feel like that person isnt willing to give you the same amount fo fight then it has to end. you have to move on and turn the page in your hearts book.
"love hurts but sometimes its a good hurt and it feels like i'm alive"
this isnt the end of your life. your gonna be ok.
explore your new town, go out and make some friends, be young!!!
love will come, love will go... but love will never leave you alone. and what i mean by that is. as long as you have family and people who love you you'll never be with out love. no matter how hard times can be.
from my heart to yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): you feel stuck and you dont know what to do. you want her to love you and she sometimes make you think so. its a cruel and unusual game.
she wants you to obsess over her but doesnt want to be with you. she also doesnt want you to be with anyone else... this girl wants her cake and wants to eat it to...
in the real world you cant do that to peoples feelings because it create heartless cheaters..
listen kid. your young and you have an entire life of love and heart brake ahead of you.
i'm not saying not to fight for your heart but if your feel like that person isnt willing to give you the same amount fo fight then it has to end. you have to move on and turn the page in your hearts book.
"love hurts but sometimes its a good hurt and it feels like i'm alive"
this isnt the end of your life. your gonna be ok.
explore your new town, go out and make some friends, be young!!!
love will come, love will go... but love will never leave you alone. and what i mean by that is. as long as you have family and people who love you you'll never be with out love. no matter how hard times can be.
from my heart to yours.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 My advice is to move on. She clearly does not want to be in a relationship with you but does not want you to be with another girl.
Move on and find some friends!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Sorry, but there is just too little information to make a judgement call on. What did you two fight over? Has that situation resolved or has she just lost interest in fighting over it with you? It is so hard to tell with such limited information.
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