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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm a ndebele.In my culture,if ur causin(women)past away while she was married after a year the elders choose another girl in the family 2 be the mans wife.Im afraid,cause i think they will choose me.I can see all the signs.I want u guys 2 advice me and let me know if this culture thing exist or not.pls tell me what happens in ur culture when ur sister past away while still married 2 a young male. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): if you are really concerned about this then i would advice you to talk to your parents about this matter. Personally i would say you would not have to marry the husband of your dearly departed sister however as i do not come from south africa, i cannot be certain of the cultural norms etc. Ask your parents or friends - its better to look silly by asking than worrying endlessly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Nothing happens, you'd grieve sincerely for your sister's death and the man would be really upset, but you wouldn't give him another family member . He'd have to heal on his own, and when he is ready, he would find a new wife by himself
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