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writes:Okay. I'm 13-years-old, and really like these two guys.the first one I have been dating since Feburary of this year. The second is a guy I met last month, and he is amazing!1st guy: I really like him, and the butterflies have gone away. He doesn't show that much intrest in my body. We also don't talk a lot anymore.2nd guy: I like him just as much, and the butterflies are still there, and are strong. He loves my body, and is always holding me. We don't talk because I just got his number a few days ago. He has a girlfriend. :(I don't see the 2nd guy unless we are in school, that is until he can drive. The 1st guy I see a lot because he lives right up the street. The good thing is I never see them at the same time.HELP! I don't know what to do!I don't know what to do about this
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): .. You're only 13, you shouldn't really be worried about how they feel about your body. It's going to change drastically over the next couple of years here, and really you shouldn't let them be focusing all on that because guys at that age are total horndogs and if you let them they WILL use you for sex.
Butterflies are something that don't usually stay in a relationship. Once you get to know someone, you aren't nervous or excited- you know them. Just like you don't get super worried or excited around good friends. There should be some desire for romance, however. Most people I know lose butterflies after the first month or so, but I still get them 4 years down the road so everyone is different. ;) But it really isn't good to base a relationship on that..
Second guy is out of the question. Why are you letting him hold you and appreciate your body when you both are taken? These are poor moral values. Would you like your boyfriends doing the same with girls in the future?
Stay with first guy. Just talk to him more. That's really the only problem I see there. If you dump every guy you ever lose butterflies for, you're not gonna be together for long.
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