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Is this girl worth pursuing at this point?

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Question - (5 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is a follow-up to my last question but since that was anonymous, that's kind of pointless to say but here it goes...

When I was junior last year, there was a freshmen girl in my journalism class that I initially had no real interest in even though she seemed to keep trying to get on my good side (after the in-school preview for the fall play that year, she told me how great I was on stage even though none of my scenes were performed in the preview). As the months went on, I became more and more interested in her and by April I really started to have feelings for her and we started to talk in-class a lot more. I planned on asking her out at the school graduation ceremony but it got rained out which means I've never gotten the chance to tell her how I really feel. I was too scared to try to track her down during the summer, feeling too stalkerish. I do know we both signed up for the advanced journalism class for my senior year, her sophomore year, but neither of us could fit it on our schedules, meaning our connections more or less ended. We ran into each other once in the hallways at the very beginning of the year and said hi to each other, I comment on her Facebook statuses every now and then but I just get too fidgety around her in reality. I've tried to get myself to find other girls to be interested in but all roads seem to lead back to her. Should I try to give myself a shot at asking her out before I leave for college at the end of August even though I haven't really gotten the chance to be around her in a very long time?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010):

Yes, you definitely should. She'll be having the same misgivings as you and probably has been thinking about you as well, if she was already indicating she was interested.

She probably thinks you think you two are 'just friends' if all you've done is comment on her Facebook, so difinitely go for it

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (5 June 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntYes yes yes, go for it you only live once!

Good luck

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