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30-35,
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writes: The father of my child and I were together for three and a half years. He moved to the city I'm in to be with me when we first got together (we didn't meet on the internet but he did live in another state) because I wasn't financially ready to move to be with him. We lived together only 5 months before we got pregnant, and were together for only 6 months, officially. We wanted to get married then but decided to wait until after our baby was born to tie the knot because I wanted my family there. He proposed to me with a ring, had our baby do it after her first birthday. We set the date started planning. As it grew closer to the date, we decided to purchase a home instead of renting. I have no credit so everything is in his name. We finally found a house, put an offer in and it was accepted. With the wedding coming up fast, the stress of buying a house, then packing and moving, we were fighting. It wasn't anything out of ordinary, I thought. I would assume with all the stressful things all crammed together like that, it was expected to have a little more arguing than usual. Anyway, we moved into the new house and two days after, (one month before our wedding) we got into a big fight. He called off the wedding and broke up with me. It's been four months now. I still love him more than anything and want to be with him. I want to marry him and have our family grow in the house I picked out for us. He already has a girlfriend, isn't as respectful to me as I thought he would be if we ever broke up, and sometimes says things purposely to hurt me. I don't know what to do in my situation. Sometimes I think he's not the right person for me but I think about it some more and I've been in love with this man from the second I laid my eyes on him! I'm not just ready to give that, all of the memories we created, or the plans we made up yet. What is a girl supposed to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): You didn't mention why he broke up with you. At any rate, it seems as though he as moved on with his new gf and all, thus you should respect that and try taking time to get over him.
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