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writes:Hi, Can you tell if you have a low or high sex drive if your still a virgen? I like to masterbait alot thoe i would do it every night if i had time lol does that mean any thing? Also is it true if you use a toy or finger yourself you wont be tight any more the first time you have sex? Im 18 by the way. Thanks.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 If you masturbate a lot , it means that you have a higher sex drive. It does not matter if you DIY or have real sex.
If you are sufficiently stimulated and aroused, it won't be tight.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Sex drive is a rather abstract idea. How would you rate a person who has had sex with only one person, but several times day, every day? Compare this to a person who has a one-night stand every weekend.
The first: 1 person = 1000 sessions.
The second: 52 people = 52-208 sessions.
And sex drive is not the same as being horny. One suggest a need for the reproductive act, the other can be satisfied alone as you have found out.
Stick with the self stimulation for now, until you find someone you really want to be horny with. It is a lot less likely to cause broken heart, STD and pregnancy. Most likely when you find that person you will find that your sex drive will not be an issue... well unless you exhaust the poor fellow but at your age dying of sexual exhaustion is pretty much every guys fantasy.
As for tightness, not unless you are using gigantic toys, no. Women can have babies and still be thight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Hello Girl,
Not a problem to worry about. sex drive is personal and individual thing and you are perfectly normal.
you do not want to use any thing, if you do not want to. So do not break your head in this problem
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Sex drive has nothing to do with virginity. Think about it -- if virgins didn't have a sex drive, we'd all remain virgins. What you're doing is fine, it's normal, and it will serve you very well when you find a guy who's right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): i would think that means you have a high sex drive. I had a gf once that did that masterbated all the time. You wont be quite as tight if u use big toys but just fingering wont change much. A good thing will be you might kind of learn what you want and is good for you when the time does come, meaning you will probably be better than the typical virgin but all girls get better. I'm 19
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