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26-29,
*ubergene
writes:three months ago I was really good friends with this girl and I decided to ask her out so I did and she said yes. This was my first girlfriend so I tried to be as normal as possible but I think by trying to act normal I changed. So two months after she breaks up with me. Then after that we become really good friends again and the other night we were talking on msn and she asks me out. I say yes but I don't know how to react when I see her or what I should do around her because I don't want to become too clingy and she is getting frustated with me but I don't want to not give her enough attention that she dumps me again.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Aww...you and she are so young and just learning how to be boyfriend and girlfriend. The best way to act is like yourself. Kind, caring, and loving. Listen to her as she talks, encourage her to follow her dreams, tell her of yours.
The way to not be too clingy is to let the relationship breathe. Call her often, but not 10x per day. Give enough time between calls/texts that you have something to tell her - news of what you're doing. And definitely be yourself.
She is just as unsure as you are with the whole thing. Be confident in who you are - that's your best chance of success! Good luck!
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