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female
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41-50,
*hichen
writes:Started talking to this guy online...he asked me for my number and since I'm shy it took me a while to give it to him.He calls daily and 80% of the conversation kissing me and holding my hand...would I kiss him and hold his hand if we were together. Than he says that when we meet we wont have sex but would I do other stuff. I'm not stupid I know guys say things to get what they want ie. sex. Don't get me wrong I love sex just as much as men...but this confuses me and I just don't know about him...I've been burned really bad in the past, so my wall is up. I don't know if I'm doing my usual and finding faults in order to reject him before he rejects me or is this normal for a man to ask questions like this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Hes odd and i would advise you NOT to meet him. I spent time chatting online with guys and the one chatting to you is a certain type that scour the net seeking sex. His strange conversations with you are quite common for them and generally dont work on women with some savvy. He will have asked many women the same questions hes asking you and been told to jog on. Id tell him the same thing if i were you. You say you are shy and youve been hurt in the past, so you are vunerable and he knows it. I wouldnt regard this character as friend material, let alone think of talking intimately with him or meeting for kisses ect.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 He is looking for sex.
Have you met him in person before? I don't think so, it's not the best idea to give your information to people over the internet. Better to know them before you give your number out.
Good Luck!
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