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*usinessasusual
writes:I have this problem with being able to cum from getting a blowjob - I just cant! (cum, that is). For some reason I hardly feel her mouth when it's on me - handjobs on the other hand (no pun intended) are great. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to probably increase sensitivity or something down there? I get so jealous of her when she's moaning and cumming and enjoying herself when I give her oral lol
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reader, businessasusual +, writes (5 June 2010):
businessasusual is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst off, thank you guys for the advice. I think I should really stop with the self-procreation for a little while. Though the last time I laid off it for a few days, I came in a rather large volume... she's really scared of cum :S Are there any diet patterns I might want to avoid before doing that sort of thing so that I won't cum so much when I do?
As for the teeth scraping thing, how can I avoid that? It happened a few times already and i (politely) told her about it, and she said it was mainly because of my size. Very little I can do about that now can I? What tips can you offer her?
Sorry for replying with such a loaded question, guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): Do you masturbate? If so, stop for a couple of days, no handjobs either, then have her give you a blowjob. Hands exert much more pressure than a mouth can, so you've just gotten desensitized from the masturbation and handjobs.
If this doesn't work, she might not be sucking hard enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2010): bj's can be wonderful, but its a very delicate sensation, and us guys might have a tendency to get used to more firm stimulation like from a hand job (from her or on our own). Stop jacking off for a while, ore really lighten up on your/her technique for a while and see what happens. Another scenario is that you may have some sort of performance anxiety; not wanting to jam it down her throat, or afraid she'll scrape you with her teeth. Talk it over if you can. And if you can't then there is a whole field to explore...talking about what you like, dislike...maybe get her to explore new ways to go down on you. There was one time when my gf spent an evening with some gay friends of hers. The next bj she gave me was way different from her usual style. I later asked her about it and she told me they had talked about bj's and she had picked up some tips!
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