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writes:I have a friend that has this friend that she talks to on the phone and go out sometimes. Her friend has asked her many times to become his girlfriend, and she always said no, and she would tell him how she never felt nothing for him, that he was as a friend to her. Now last weekend he came to visit her and his phone rings and he answers. He talks for a while, when he is done talking on the phone, my friend asks him how he was talking to. He tells her its his girlfriend. She was chocked. Now Tuesday she has been crying because she now realize that she fell in love with him and is cry her eyes out, she is confused with all of this. As my best friend I want her to fell good, not this terrible. I don't know if she should go and talk to him about her felling or how she fells. What should she do, now that she knows that she fells something for him. Please help!!Thank you!!Liz
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (26 January 2010):
 This situation is so common that many men will tell you that women only want things that they can't have. It is quite likely that she really doesn't want him, but was enjoying stringing him along. She will quickly get over it. The best thing you can do as a friend is to distract her. Go out and have some fun without guys.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
She had her chance and blew it. He's moved on. This isn't actually about her fancying him, it's that she was happy to have his attention and now misses it. Truth is she just wants what she can't have. As her friend, help her get over him. Don't tell him though, because he'll not be interested. It's too late for your friend.
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