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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so my boyfriend who is 21 and i(17)been dating for 11 months now. we haven't had sex. I feel like he might be cheating on me or has lost interest in me. we live 3 hrs away and he comes to my house every weekend, we are on the phone every night till late hrs..lately he doesn't say sweet stuff as he use to..like he wants to marry me and he loves me forever etc..now he says your amazing, i love you..and ill ask him is that all you have to say and he says yes. he always tells me that i know already how he feels about me and etc. i don't say anything about this to him because he says i think to much. we use to text like all day and now it takes him awhile to text me. when we are together he talks a lot to his brothers. it makes me mad. they are always talking. i checked his phone and i don't find anything suspicious. i read his text and his emails and face book stuff everything and i don't nothing at all. i told him if he deletes his text messages before coming over or something that i never find anything and he say oh my god he isn't hiding anything and he doesn't like when i assume stuff. i don't know if he needs space or a break or what..or is this just how guys are..he is my first boyfriend. i love him with all my heart. but i have asked him if he sure of what he feels about me and etc..and he say he is tired of me feeling like he doesn't love me because he does. he says it gets annoying because i bring it up a lot.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
This clearly isn't working. Whether he's cheating or not isn't the issue. The issue is that because you both live so far apart, you have no trust. A relationship like this can't go on. You would be better off moving on now.
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reader, unknown_unknowns +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Honey, I wouldn't trust this guy. You live really far apart. And. . . he's 21. I wouldn't trust him. In his mind he may not even consider it cheating because you live so far apart. You may love each other very much but his behavior and the distance between you, and . . . I would say more but I don't want you to feel bad. Don't sleep with him. Keep your chin up.
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