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writes:I have been with my husband for 3 yrs. And he really wants to have anal sex, we have tried like 2 or 3 times,it is very painful,but I also enjoy it, but I always have a orgasm very fast. I want to give him what he wants.n e tips on how to not have a orgasm so fast. I have tries diffrent types of lubes nothing helps!Any tips on how it will not hurt so bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I find that saliva works just fine
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (26 January 2010):
My advice may not be worth much since I am the opposite of you - anal doesn't hurt me, but having a dick in my bum doesn't make me orgasm even though I always orgasm with vaginal sex. Is it the size, the friction or some interior poking that is causing the problem?
Try a different position or angle.
Try a petroleum based (Vaseline) lube rather than a water based (KY) one although it isn't recommended in the vagina.
Use a little of an oil-based enema.
Let your husband start by inserting a well lubed finger, then two.
Go slowly.
I have two partners. Fortunately for me the one that wants anal sex has the thinner penis, although they are equally long, so that may explain my situation. Still, he works up to it with his finger, pushing a lot of lube inside, I get relaxed, he lubes up his penis and works it in only as I get comfortable. It's just not the same as a vagina having natural lube and being better suited to take an eager guy.
Work at it and I hope you both end up very satisfied. Let us know how it goes and what works. Thanks.
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