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anonymous
writes:I went back to a guys house, something I never do. I was so unbelieveably drunk and just out of a really bad relationship that lasted 4 years and was so intoxicated. I blanked out for 6 hours. He is 15 years older than me. It was akward after we slept together, but i didn't know why, two months passed and he told me its because I used his carpet to pee on insted of the bathroom, and I know for a fact he has told all his friends. People who I hang out with on a weekly basis. I am so ashamed, they are not close friends but now I feel like I can't go anywhere without them looking at me and thinking about this. I am 17 years old, and I know I shouldn't drink as much as I did and I don't intend on doing it again, but how to I get my reputation back? he told me he wouldn't tell anybody but I know that he has, just sly little remarks from people on his facebook and people looking at me funny when I go out. Please help me, I feel so ashamed, I wish I could go to a country far away. It's not something i'd do normally, people have done it in my house tons of times and I always tried to laugh it off, but it's different because I'm a girl and shouldn't allow myself to get like that. I feel so sick and ashamed. please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): Just try and see the funny side of it, People know you were really drunk so don't worry, it's just one of those things, everyone has had their drunken moment and funny story x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): well you are 17 and drinking, which is bad enough, but YOU HAD SEX WITH A 32-YEAR OLD, that's rape here in the US. and it's embarrassing, it doesn't seem like you had much class before the pee incident so i don't think your reputation will ever be the same. sucks. sometimes you have to toughen up and live with the consequences of your foolish mistakes.
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reader, unknown_unknowns  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 What's done is done. You can't change it. It will take new memories of your funny, charming, witty and lovely self to erase the memory of your lowest moment-- that of a carpet-wee. It will only repair itself with time and "decorum," that is, no more black-out drunks. (Very dangerous-- did you have a pregnancy test?) Just brush it off, and try to "be a lady" so to speak and everyone will forget all about it. Well, they will forget about it if you stop reminding them by reacting and being embarrassed by it! And seriously, aren't you in Australia? Isn't blackout drunk carpet-weeing sort of a cultural rite of passage? You'll do much more embarrassing things in the years to come, I'm sure. One day you'll look back and wish it was just a carpet wee you're feeling shame for.
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