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writes: Moderator's Note: link to website removed.I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their partners were bigger?I'm very small up top, and have always wandered whether the "more than a handful" thing is just a PC statement thrown to keep us happy. I just can't imagine really why would a man really prefer small breasts when big ones are so eye catching and just simply more to grab, but then again I think like a woman.Maybe I'm thinking too much about size - but to put it in perspective to men that say we fret too much over size, it's the same as you guys thinking about penis size. There's no way to convince you that penis size doesn't matter. Well, it's the same for women.Are men just being PC when they say more than a handful is a waste, or that they prefer small breasts over big ones? Or are they really secretly hoping that their partner gets an augmentation? I really hope the douche that wrote that manual is just the exception and not the rule. Of course some men (if not most) do prefer big breasts better (like my boyfriend), but are there really guys that would pick Kate Hudson over Scarlet Johansson?
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reader, Petra at home  +, writes (26 January 2010):
Find a guy that loves you for everything else you are first. Then if it would make him happier for you to have large breasts you can consider getting implants then. But I bet that won't be the case.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
You're worrying far too much. When a guy truly loves you, he just loves you as you are. Fake breasts are fake and that's it. So love yourself as you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): The important issue here which I think most guys will tell you is not the question of size, because even with individual personal preferences I can safely say most, and I mean the vast majority of us guys prefer NATURAL breasts.
I would take a flat chested woman over a fake breasted woman any day of the week.
I personally can't stand nor do I know anyone who has respect for a woman that's so insecure she has to have an invasive surgical procedure to correct what is essentially a mental issue. Fake boobs = fake woman is the general consensus amongst the people I know.
Breast implants are only really acceptable in my mind for their original intended use on women who have had disfiguring injuries or a mastectomy, to help them feel whole again and help them heal, unfortunately in our society a lot of women are convinced that they too are disfigured if they don't have a certain size or shape breast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I'm a girl and I'm fine with my B cups. I can wear low-cut tops without looking inappropriate, I don't have to suffer back pain, and they are naturally perky. No boy has ever told me they'd be better if they were bigger, but I have received compliments on them, so I see no reason to think they'd find me more attractive if only I were bigger up top.Not every girl is hung up about whether guys secretly prefer bigger boobs. Speak for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I'm a girl and I'm fine with my B cups. I can wear low-cut tops without looking inappropriate, I don't have to suffer back pain, and they are naturally perky. No boy has ever told me they'd be better if they were bigger, but I have received compliments on them, so I see no reason to think Not every girl is hung up about whether guys secretly prefer bigger boobs. Speak for yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): I like big boobs. But I like reasonably firm boobs too. Better to be smaller and firmer than huge and saggy.
Even huge & saggy boobs have some fans. There's a wide variety in what different guys like.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 I know more guys who think huge breasts are more of a turn-off than small breasts. I also know guys who don't like small breasts much, but they're in the minority and don't dislike them as much as the guys who dislike large breasts (in my experience). I also know guys who are only attracted to women with brown hair or thick eyebrows or who drive green cars. It's really a matter of just basic attraction and it turns out giant breasts aren't always good. Just like blue eyes aren't always good. I don't really know how this enormous breast thing got started, but breast size really isn't as big a deal as most women think it is.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Breast size is usually irrelevant when it comes down to basic attraction. Of course there may be some activities for which large breast would be preferred, but im gonna go out on a limb and say the average guy doesn't care i think most men if the prefer large breast its mostly so they can prance there woman around in front of others.
Im a guy and i dont really care about breast size as far as them being to small its the to big thats a turn off, I think im correct in saying its better to have small ones then large ones guys dont care that much about the size and large ones can bring many problems lol if you have large ones thats all guys will notice we kinda cant help it i would never suggest to any woman to enlargen her breast and i kno some flat chested ones.
A girls breast are like the cars steering wheel, if your looking at the car you cant help but to see it but who judges a car buy its steering wheel unless you have one of those huge fancy after markets.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 I can say that I do prefer a smaller to medium breast size. They look so much better when there is nothing on. Now I would not pick a gf based on her breast size but I am not really attracted to larger breasts. They tend to look worse over the years while the smaller one will keep their natural shape.
I have a friend a friend who had breast reduction surgery because (besides the back problems) she hated being the blonde with the double D's.
Its not about size its about how you work what you have and the same goes for guys too.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 One of the most important things I've learnt in life is not to believe everything you read.
I bet this douche was taking a bribe from an unscrupulous plastic surgeon. Don't get me wrong, some plastic surgeons are really good! We need them.
However, the world is full of people who prey on the insecurities of others.
You have to be careful who you trust. I would rather trust a guy that I know and love who tells me I don't need surgery, than some douche.
That manual is baloney.
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reader, unknown_unknowns +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Some guys genuinely like small ones, some guys like big ones. Speaking as a "full figured" woman with large breasts, though-- a toned, skinny bod trumps big tatas damn near any day. Some guys have to have the breast meat and will go for big boobs no matter what kind of horrible harpy is attached to said boobs. Some men actually do prefer small knockers-- they are firmer, and perkier, and bouncier. A skinny girl can always get a bra to make her boobs look big. Some men are breast-indifferent and only care about the ass, or legs! Count your blessings!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): You probably worry too much. I suppose I speak only for myself, but I really don't much care for "big". I'm partial to small to medium. My wife is 34a and I'm happy as can be :) I'm totally turned off by fake boobs... gimme a real 34a any day over a 36D that's not real! So all guys have their preferences, but I think most love the woman behind the eye candy - that's what really counts.
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