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writes:i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he was in love with me..at first i had no idea what to say..but i think i feel the same way to..but he lives in CA and i live in NY...and i want to be with someone...but i want to be with him..i want to go to dances with a guy my age but i just dont know what to do or to feel...is this normal???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2010): your a bit to young and i'm sorry to say that to have feelings for this chap, or be it your cousin, you don't mention how old he is but I know emotions can run high, try and enjoy life, i've just touched 40 and have just had a situation with my cousin, so hey ho , perhaps the dreaded wait, it may be worth it, as i found, good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): you are only 14, are you serious? you've got a lot of problems on your plate. i think you are having sex too young. and he is your cousin. and you live on opposite sides of the country.. SOO everything points to NOT NORMAL. ask a friend or ANYONE what they think, i'm pretty sure they'll say the exact same thing. you talking about school dances and stuff shows how young you really are and its kinda scary to think that you've already done "a lot of sexual things".. especially with family.
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reader, SeXylOvE12 +, writes (26 January 2010):
 It's not normal to have sex with your cousin.
How closely related are you to him? Because if you're first or second cousins what you're doing is illegal.
In my opinion, thinking anything sexual about someone you're related to is wrong, but i can't tell you how to feel.
My advice would be to move on. There's the related part to think about, the age difference, and the distance. Go on and live your life as a normal teenager. You're young and are probably confused because you don't know what love is yet. Find it with some boy who lives by you, is close to your age, and isn't related to you. Live a normal teenage life and don't tie yourself down with someone who lives hundreds of miles away.
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