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writes: i had a girlfriend before and i was so in love with her.i did everything she wants but she only breaks my heart she loves someone and not me.she breaks up with me and it really hurts. the day after our break up i hang out with my friends and we all have drunk.i like one of my friends i told her everything happened with me and my girlfriend.then i told her that i like her and i know she likes me also.i courted her and then we became lovers. at that time i was still thinking of my ex it's really hard to forget her. we are still texting with my ex and sometimes i go dating with her and my girlfriend doesn't know what i am doing.my ex told me that she realized that she loves me but i already have new. as days goes by i really see that my present girlfriend really loves me but 1 night she caught me dating with my ex and we had a big fight at that night and i lost her trust.the day after that i visited her in their house but she doesn't want to talk to me.then she text her ex and her ex call her i felt really hurt again.i went home crying and she go after with me and she comfort me.i really regret of what i did to her.now i realized that i was now in love with her.she was so special and so beautiful. now i am so happy being with her but she sometimes think that i still dating with my ex and she always say to me that i still love my ex.she doesn't know my feelings.she only had a little trust on me.i will not do it again to her i really love her and no one can change my love for her.she is my life now but i dont know if she still believe in me i dont want to lose her i want her to trust me again.what will i do to make her feel that i really love her and how can i get her trust back?help me plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks for your advice.i will try what you have said and i will tell you if it works. again thank you
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reader, Miss know it all!  +, writes (27 January 2010):
The best gift you can give to her is something which you know she's into, such as buying her her favourite Band's, singers CD (preferabley one she doesnt already own) or book a nice meal out and after you've eaten go and see a concert or a show, if this is too expensive then go for a more comfortable approach and cook her a meal, rent a movie she wants to see or something that has more sentimental value, rather than buying chocolate or flowers, hope this helps yet again
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have chosen my present girlfriend.i never go with dating with my ex since the night she caught me.i dont want her get hurt.and i already promise to her that i will not do it again and i did everything she wants just to make her feel that i love her.i think what i did is not enough.what is the best gift that i should give to her?
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reader, Miss know it all! +, writes (26 January 2010):
You need to decide who you are most intrested in and who you think you can start a life with, that doesnt mean jump into marriage, but at least think about who suits you best. Its not fair of you to choose both of them and play them off one another, I'm sure you really hurt her feelings when she found out you were dating your EX! Just tell her how you feel because she needs to know the truth, let her know that you love her and you promise not to do it to her again, let her know that nothing went on (im assuming it didnt?)Find out what she wants and if you can get it for her, don't go wild with buying things but gifts never go to waste. I hope this helps, please reply to me if it does.
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