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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi All,Wonder if any girls could help me here?Ive known this girl for some time now and she said at the end of last year she liked me.... I turnt her down as nicely as I could saying that I didnt know her enough and wanted to get to know her more first... we had been mainly talking through text.I met up with her and fell for her but she was kinda over me... but we had become like best friends. Weve spent a few nights together (no sex.... not a priority for me or her anyways.... she knows this.)Anyways she was the first to kiss me, and most of the time I let her initiate it as when I do, it feels awkward. She likes her space and I respect that, but we kiss and cuddle very intimately as well as grinding against towards each other (which I let her lead once again as I am the experienced one).However she dosnt want a relationship yet as she says she has issues. She says she trusts me, but she may not want to change... and I want her to open up so she can move on... I know shes been messed around by guys before, but thats only half the issue apparently.I really like this girl and even if it dosnt lead to a relationship I wanna be there and help her.... any suggestions?Cheers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionForgot to add... she has been slightly more distant lately, since we started being intimiate.... Im confused because she is the one coming onto me, she loves to tease (not that im complaining, i can give just as much back lol)....
The kisses are deep and long, not just pecs aswell...
Think ive covered all the angles.... any ideas girls?
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