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writes:how can i get my boyfriend to touch me.i wonder if he is cheating on me and am i teh problem Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
You need to talk to him. There's not enough information to tell whether or not he's cheating. It could be that he's depressed or something like that.
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Talk to him! Talking is the best solution here; he may not notice anything is wrong if you don't speak up and tell him how you feel.
I would highly doubt he is cheating on you, but you know more specifics than I. Try being touchy and cuddly with him and see if he gets the idea and reciprocates? Make a romantic dinner with candlelight and see if he gets in the mood. Maybe you guys are in a rut romantically (you haven't said how long you have been together), so you need to change things; spice things up a bit. But the biggest thing is to talk to him.
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reader, unknown_unknowns +, writes (26 January 2010):
 If he won't even touch you when he's drunk, he may no longer be attracted to you. Do you mean he won't touch you at all, or he won't touch you during sex? If it's during sex, get yourself a nice picture book and try out some sexy stuff. Tell him you want to be touched!
But don't tell yourself you are the problem-- the problem may be he is taking meds that reduce his sex drive, or his ex is grinding his soul into the mud over visitation, or a MILLION reasons. If you out and out try to seduce him and he doesn't respond, you and your BF will have to have a chat.
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