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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:HiI have been seeing my b/f for around 15 months. In that time he has been moody at times (as most people can be).Last week though, after booking a short break abroad he rang the next day to say cancel as he was feeling unhappy in himself. He had been feeling light headed and dizzy -he suggested maybe shouldn't see me anymore as it would make me unhappy too.I did cancel most of the trip but couldn't the flights.He came to see me at the weekend and said he maybe should spend more time with me (he was usually at my house 3 - 4 nights in the week as he rents a shared house)Today,This morning he woke up with the dizziness feeling and I could tell he was moody again. I suggested the doctors (again) and he said he would go if he had time.He goes to work and spends around 9 hours there at least (which he doesn't like) and never has a break or food - i think this doesn't helpI hate the moodiness and I have been through a lot of stress lately (redundancy, major operation) and was starting to come out the other end.He wants me to re-book the holiday. As my op was around 3 months ago, I still feel edgy about having sex - so this probably has an impact on him.I am feeling confused about the whole thing now. Most the time I like him being around, but lately since he decided to cancel the holiday I feel on edge.I don't want to hurt him and he has no one else, but I know I'm not his keeper.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 January 2010):
The dizziness is a bit worrying. I think he should go and see a doctor. Sometimes illness can make people act like this. And even if it's not that, he clearly has something on his mind that needs to be dealt with.
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