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30-35,
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writes:So, I like my friend. We have great chemistry, but the problem is that I'm reluctant to date. I think dating is too cliched as teenagers (holding hands in school, calling each other every night, etc.) I feel as though if I date him things will be too stereotypical of teenage relationships which is why we currently aren't dating. I'm not comfortable with that sort of relationship and he knows and understands that. But at the same time, I don't find it fair to be leading him on. What options would be best? Any other advice would also help. thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Ask him out. If you two are interested then claim each other and have whatever kind of relationship that you want. Some don't need that constant clingy relationship. If you don't tell him he could move on and it would suck to wonder what could have happened between you two.
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reader, Blod  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Your relationship is what you make it to be. So whatever you're happy with, do it. Dating someone as a teenager doesn't mean you have to do all these "teenage" things. Just go with the flow and do whatever you're both happy with.
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