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Is it a good sign she doesn't want to talk about women I'm involved with?

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Question - (26 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been getting back in touch with a friend of mine through email. There was a lot of sexual tension between us when we worked together last year, but things never materialized for various reasons.

She drops hints about men she's been involved with and I ask about them just like I ask about everything else she's up to. She, on the other hand asks questions about everything BUT the other women I've been involved with or had interest in. I even mentioned one girl by name and my friend ignored it completely.

Is this a sign that she's still interested in me? Or does it mean she just doesn't care that much?

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A female reader, donnadonut United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2010):

It could mean shes interested and does not want to talk about you with other women. Perhaps she is trying to make you jealous with talking about those other guys or perhaps she just see's you as just a friend.

There's only one way to find out for sure

Ask her :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010):

I would think so. My boyfriend and I broke up breifly and when we were getting back together I absolutely did not want to hear about anyone that he saw in the mean-time. To me, her not wanting to talk about it or ignoring the subject is a good sign. She cares, but is not the psycho-jealous type who feels that she has to know everything. I agree with the last person though, if you want her, go get her!

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (26 January 2010):

Why look for signs? If u like the girl just be a man step up and say something. Too much time is invested trying to keep the ball in the other persons court. Just serve the dang ball for a change.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2010):

It means she's not interested in hearing about your sexual conquests, which could mean she fancies you. Try talking to her about it

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